"I've learned that I don't know anything. I'm not going to figure this life out -- and there's the strange beauty. It's a mystery and I accept it for whatever it is. There is also infinite pain and suffering. Be forgiving, not in self-righteousness, but through natural honesty. Don't compare yourself to others; this creates only more conflict. I can only speak as a humble being with many faults and joys. I used be accused of being very attached to the past, but I am no longer sentimental. I live in the present, not trying to force things, but as a rudderless boat among the ever moving water. Don't look for answers from anybody else. Don't even trust me. Find it yourself, but do it joyously!"